Comparing Korean and Canadian Lifestyles

There are so many personal links between Canada and Korea. Many Koreans have relatives in Canada, and Canada is high on their list of travel destinations. Northern Lights and scenery are major attractions. Conversely, many Canadians taught English in Korea, have hosted Korean students or have Korean-Canadian friends.

Work-life balance has a long way to go in Korea

…..whereas in Canada expectations are very high in terms of how the workplace has to accommodate personal life. In terms of work ethics, Koreans generally beat Canadians. But there is a point in the Korean work day when more hours come at the expense of rapidly decreasing productivity – i.e. when people are just staying because they can’t leave before their boss does. Paired with long commutes, there is very little time left for a personal life, socializing and recharging in Korea – all of which would also help to be more productive at work.

Korean society is still male-dominated

…..but there is movement: The obsession with female beauty is under fire – a few media stars pointedly refuse excessive makeup – or cosmetic surgery, which some estimates put at 30% among young Korean women. Also, of the young Koreans immigrating to Canada, I estimate 80% are woman. They want to have fair career opportunities and enjoy self determination.  Until this day, Korean parents try to influence their children’s choice of partner and time of marriage. Some of that would be considered inappropriate meddling in Canada. Young Koreans are pushing back – but within the context of a level of respect towards the older generation (especially the parents) that is unknown in Canada.

More young Koreans under 30 live with their parents than in Canada

There are reasons: When so many are moving to Seoul, rents go up relative to stagnating incomes. Young people not working for the big conglomerates often cannot afford to rent their own place, especially in Seoul, where 50% of all Koreans live! Many young Koreans can’t find a job, which makes the situation worse. It is also true that life under mom’s roof is quite comfy – especially for young men who don’t have to do much in the house in Korea. As well, it’s easier for parents to retain a measure of control over their children.